Why we react as we do to each other

That which we don’t understand or have difficulty accepting, we classify and categorize. When someone regards you as offputting, it is because the very same feelings you emanate are resonating within them, and it is actually their own internal qualities they are trying to resist in being unaccepting of you. And you may notice that there are times when you do the same. The more you give yourself permission to be aware of this, the more you become whole and genuine.