Virtually everybody around you needs your love and experiences some fear of denial, and this is why you see people behave the way they do, protectively asserting otherwise. We are all in the same boat. Existence is love, and the truth of our underlying pervasive, basic spiritual being. The illusion of distance imposed through the projection of the physical is what throws us off. See this for yourself, just let yourself see past the clouds of your own defensive projecting to notice this about the people around you, it’s a revelation!