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The pathway to greater wholeness, self-awareness, self-acceptance and arrival at presence.
Each of us takes on, creates, invests ourselves in, wears, displays and projects our own personal library of personas, each one a role in our particular assortment of games of social engagement. Beyond the immediate role of the moment, we contain within us every role...
“Who wouldn’t you be, what person wouldn’t you be, if you didn’t have that happening in your life?”
When a person is constantly or continually displaying the same types of problems, the same complaints, it means they have come to identify themself as being the person who displays that chronic condition. One way of helping to enlighten them and help them to begin to...
Chronic difficult conditions and the “you” that displays them.
One way to begin to process a chronic undesirable condition would be to consciously address who you really are, as opposed to your persona that maintains that issue, as in, "Who would you be if you didn't have that problem?" and "Who wouldn't you be if you didn't have...
What you Feel
. Feelings are the realest things and the true measure of existence. All that matters in any relationship is how you make each other feel. Thoughts and language are imprecise, relatively superficial, and often erroneous efforts to invoke, analyze, express, suppress,...
Penetrating and dissolving chronic anxiety
Penetrating and dissolving chronic anxiety is not so much work as must be done to penetrate and dissolve all the “protective” shielding you have bound yourself to, all the attitudes you keep in place to try to push it back. That’s where the work is, and it is not...
Losing yourself, finding yourself
We tend to lose ourselves in the context of the environments we pass through over time, but always your presence lies dormant, awaiting your recognition and reconnection.
You vs You.
The defenses you have activated and energized against something you are afraid to feel are what's stopping you. You can't have what you want without getting out of your own way. Let go.
Having found your own spiritual truth and path…
When you tell me that you have found spiritual truth and your path, I am happy for you. When you tell me that I am and will remain lost unless and until I recognize and accept your way, I see that you struggle with feelings of being lost and are seeking confirmation...
Why we interact as we do, on social media… and elsewhere
In social media, and for that matter, all modes of social interaction, when conversations become contentious is because we are willfully projecting the expressions of others so as to display and maintain the narrative through which we are currently defining ourselves....
All that I can do
There isn’t anything I could tell you that, inside yourself, you don’t already know, underneath your layers of defensive denial. I can only invite and encourage you to open up to the expressions of all that is here for you from within.