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Just let go of the constant projecting.
There is so much beauty in life to take pleasure in, we are so blessed to be in this world. We merely need to be present and have its presence, and just let go of the constant projecting so that we can have what actually is here to love and enjoy.
Presence as inclusion
I see so much posturing of condescension on social media. And elsewhere. Asserting that you are above someone or something that you fear to engage in or with is escapism. It is denial. You are not above anything you cannot engage with. Have presence, not as...
The greatest contribution I know of that one person can make to another.
The greatest contribution I know of that one person can make to another is to invite and encourage someone to grant themself permission to recognize and accept all that they truly are and all they are capable of, and to trust their own instincts.
Any spiritual practice or form of therapy that doesn’t recognize that ultimately, it’s all about love, will be superficial in what it can accomplish.
Love is the basis of everything. Any spiritual practice or form of therapy that doesn’t recognize that ultimately, it’s all about love, will be superficial in what it can accomplish. Love is the aspiration: feeling love, giving love, being loved. All undesirable...
Revel in your true presence
True presence is really being here. It isn’t advantageous to present yourself as being some particular way. It amounts to substituting a program for being present and it takes you out of the moment. Presenting or projecting some image or attitude instead quickly...
Recapture the feelings of wonder you had as a child that remain dormant inside you
Everything is enchantingly interesting and unique when you are truly present. The wonderful feeling you have as a child is yours to take pleasure in, when you unleash your natural, essential presence, and allow yourself to be open to all there is to take in around...
What happens when you internally program a standardized way of considering, viewing or reacting to something
To the degree that you need to categorize, label, judge, to internally program a standardized way of considering, viewing or reacting to something, you are abdicating your presence, and thus making yourself smaller and less whole. To be whole is to be fully present,...
You needn’t pretend or restrain anything.
Let yourself be what you naturally are, a compassionate, loving, knowing being, recognizing and acknowledging the love and beauty in others. You needn't pretend or restrain anything.
The key to manifesting the life circumstances you desire
The key to manifesting the life circumstances you desire isn't necessarily working at it or trying to find it. It is in granting yourself permission for these things to be for you. You may need to recognize and discard any number of opposing attitudes you have...
For a better, more beautiful and happier life
For a better, more beautiful and happier life, be willing to feel whatever presents itself to be felt. Avoidance brings and maintains unpleasantness. Love, Dex