Specific Processes

“The key is Dexter’s simplicity. He strikes right to the core”

I have had two counseling sessions with Dexter.The gains I've had from these two hours actually compare to thegains I got from OT8 - which was also life-changing.The key is Dexter's simplicity. He strikes right to the coreof any issue at hand. No beating around the...

All About the Fascinating World of Your and Others’ Game-Self Identities

We assume the identities of our game selves in interacting with the game selves of others, to play the endless varieties of the games people play- “get the most attention”, “make people fear you”, “be invisible”, “smartest guy in the room”, “shock people”, “get...

“We have met the enemy, and he is us”

I have written about the commonalities between the rigid defensive attitudes (aka stubbornly held protective attitudes) we take on and the personas (aka adopted identities) we take on before. And now, over the past year, in every case, I've noticed perhaps the most...

“I feel so much more prepared to take on life and its challenges”

I am so thankful for the work that I've invested in sessions with Dex Gelfand these last few months. I came to him scared and irresponsible, but after the Therapeutic Spiritual Counseling I've participated in thus far, I feel so much more prepared to take on life and...

“I feel like I’ve found the Holy Grail of therapeutic techniques”

I’m so impressed with, and grateful for, the training/mentoring I’ve received from Dex in his Therapeutic Spiritual Counselling techniques. I’ve worked in the field of personal growth facilitation for several years and have studied numerous techniques and modalities,...