The solution that quickly becomes the problem

When you project a person to be a certain way, you impose that on them in engaging with them, regardless of how consciously you are doing that. This is something we all commonly do and it comes across and feels like what it is, a refusal to recognize, accept and engage with them, to be present, and have their presence as they are. Presence is the solution to everything, and projecting is the “solution” that quickly becomes the problem.