Empathy, which is essentially love, is the underlying state of being that is free to emerge when you allow your projections of the idea of unacceptance to drop away in relation to the person you are engaging with. Love, Dex
“What can you now have?”
There are perhaps countless variations of technique to open up and process our painful or disturbing material, all of some value. But beyond opening the door and entering into any of your darkened zones, there is something more to gain, and that is the resurgence and...
“Something major has happened! … This completely exceeds my expectations, far beyond what I was hoping for!”
My participant GG came to me after his time spent in another spiritually oriented self-improvement practice left him entangled in a very uncomfortable state of mind. He had this to share after today's session: "Something major has happened! I was worried that I’d be...
Behind the spiritual curtain.
We perceive things in the way that we create them to be perceived. Creation and perception only seem to be separate things, so that we can experience our projections. With Love, Dex
“I can’t” springs from “I won’t”.
Once we peel back our curtains of protection, we can see that "I can't" is really "In order to protect myself from something, I won't". Fear is the underlying driver of what appears to be inability. The path to success and happiness goes through, not around, fear....
Essential Truths
I have found these things to be true: Wholly accepting or wholly rejecting information based on who it comes from, or through, is just lazy thinking. Evaluate each separate idea, principle or method on its own individual merits, as you yourself find them. Be loyal to...
What is Behind the Facade of Anger.
Fear is always the true strong and motivating energy behind the façade of anger. Study the features of someone displaying anger, and you can see and feel the fear they are desperately trying to clamp down with anger. Let that underlying fear energy release and...
An important question to be asked and answered
After spiritually digesting the energies manifesting as disturbing feelings in a session of therapeutic spiritual counseling, the “no-fly zones” of existence resulting from those energies need to be recovered. And so, after having completed the processing of any...
About pursuing a relationship.
In pursuing a relationship, as in other pursuits, the more forcing and desperation you infuse into the endeavor, the further back you move the goalposts. On an essential and spiritual level, things happen through envisioning, projection, and faith and trust in...