T.N. had been struggling with chronic anxieties for a long time until recently entering into sessions with me. She has this to share after her latest session:
“This session is a game-changer, this is the most relaxed I’ve ever felt! our sessions overall are making me a more relaxed person. I’m in a billion times better place than when we started.”
T.N., September 2022
“It doesn’t even affect me anymore! I like that process, that’s a magical process, that was really cool!”
I’ve recently developed a magical new technique that resolves disturbing feelings a person has in relation to someone who has made them feel ill at ease or triggers reactions in them. One of the first applications of this new Presence Technique was this week, with a participant who had been struggling for years with the after-effects of a particularly abusive relationship. Susan’s anxieties were frequently triggered, making it extremely difficult to establish or maintain a new relationship ever since.
After our session making use of the Presence Technique to relieve these feelings, Susan has this to share:
“I feel really good! There were feelings of guilt; I don’t need to feel guilty, there’s so much more to me. What a relief! All the things I felt mad about, I don’t care anymore, I really don’t, it doesn’t even affect me anymore! I like that process, that’s a magical process, that was really cool!”
Susan C, August 2022
My purpose in asking a specific question in a session isn’t merely for them to give me an answer, or for me to hear their answer. It isn’t even necessarily for them to come up with an answer. The purpose of my posing a question to my client in the session is to help guide them to recognize something within them to inspire the changes that they desire. Said to me by one client this week: “The questions you ask me in these sessions are very profound; your question inspires me to look at my life in a new way”
The changes, relief and feeling of liberation are profound. It’s not merely a therapeutic event, it’s a spiritual recovery that hadn’t seemed possible until now: “I feel teary-eyed, that’s never happened before in a session!”
The work done in sessions with me sooner or later, invariably, includes recognizing and unraveling the various selves and attitudes within us that we’ve taken on and accumulated over time. When we feel sufficiently threatened and unsafe, we stick ourselves to these to hide behind them and soldier our way through. But then we pay the highest price, the loss of self, the loss of actually being present in our own skin.
With the techniques I intuitively apply to unravel these traps, the changes, relief and feeling of liberation are profound. It’s not merely a therapeutic event, it’s a spiritual recovery that hadn’t seemed possible until now.
M.A.’s experience had included a fair amount of time spent in other session work before he began his personal journey of sessions with Dex. He has this to share after such an event in his latest session:
“I feel teary-eyed, that’s never happened before in a session! It feels like I can have more of the environment, seeing it from the inside instead of reacting to it from somewhere else. I can look at something for what it is, rather than through layers of my own filters, I’m enjoying this!
The change and sense of expansion that’s happening in every session is greater than in the previous session, I’m blissed out”
M.A., August 2022
“I’ve been crying every day for years, and now, since that session with you I haven’t cried once!” My most recent client testimonial. Reach out to me, and be surprised at what can be accomplished!
“This is life-changing. I feel happy and grateful, I’ve never felt this good before! My soul is better”
This is an example of why I love what I do, making a difference in someone’s life. Anna G had been suffering deep feelings of anxiety, with little trust or confidence in herself for several years, following a devastating life episode. She had this to say after a session with me:
“Since the session, the anxiety is just not there. I had self-doubt, and then a lot of things resolved. I instantly felt higher self-confidence. I trust my decisions more. I feel surprised!
It all seems resolved. I’ve stopped replaying moments over and over. I was fixated on what happened for so long! I’m very surprised that I don’t have that feeling anymore.
Apparently, I just needed that one session with you! I’ve been riding this good feeling for several days now, ever since that session.
This is life-changing. I feel happy and grateful, I’ve never felt this good before! I’ve become so happy, I’ve told all my friends. My soul is better, I can be a better friend to people. I’m a better person. I can focus better at work, and in every aspect of my life.
This is such a new state of mind! I feel resilient, empowered, and very, very, very grateful. Thanks, Dex!”
Anna G, Florida, USA, July 2022
She’d been suffering from PTSD: “Wow Dex, I don’t feel like crying, that’s a solid improvement!…This is a really good feeling that I haven’t had in a long time!”
It is not at all unusual for people to fall into severely traumatized, anxiety-ridden conditions. This is what is meant by PTSD, or “post-traumatic stress disorder”. The condition does exists, but I object to the label, because having defined oneself that way, it is that much more prevalent, and harder to shed.
Common, standard techniques and forms of therapy are usually, at best, painfully slow routes to marginal improvement. It takes both well-understood precision techniques and a deep capacity for empathy to really remedy and release the constant state of suffering.
People in that highly traumatized state of mind find ordinary daily functions and activities troubling and challenging, and even impossible to engage in.
I’m often engaged in facilitating recovery from this debilitating state for clients. My personal shock resolving technique is a key element necessary for every such “PTSD” client, as they are swamped in moments of personal shock.
Lily C. was one such client. She had this to share after her first session with me:
“Wow Dex, I don’t feel like crying, that’s a solid improvement! That’s very cool! This is a really good feeling that I haven’t had in a long time! I don’t feel fearful or scared-I think I can have a conversation now! Thank you, this is a pretty amazing win!”
Lily, Chicago IL, July 2022
This is what I do, and I can do the same for you, or a friend in need.
“I am happy to report that I am experiencing a tangible improvement from that session. There was this hidden but persistent layer of stress and discomfort present whenever I was driving my car or being outdoors”
Hi Dexter, When I saw your email suggesting I have a session on Thursday I agreed but secretly expected no further benefit from that session. I am happy to report that I am experiencing a tangible improvement from that session. There was this hidden but persistent layer of stress and discomfort present whenever I was driving my car or being outdoors. It is only by its absence that I am aware that something has changed for the better.
B.A. , New Mexico, July 2022
“I feel the expression of my full beingness, a fluid, open versatile expression of self! So much has now been digested, thanks Dex, I really appreciate your skill at this!”
C.S., July 2022
“I’m feeling more relaxed, it’s gotten quiet in my mind…I look forward to appreciating people in the present!”
M.A. had previously had sessions with one or two practices that you may have heard of or been familiar with, but was still seeking to have his hopes and expectations satisfied. He recently found his way to having sessions with me, and has this to share after his latest session experience:
“I’m feeling more relaxed, it’s gotten quiet in my mind. Now I feel able to see another person in the present, without any prejudicial attitudes, projections or filters, and appreciate their individual qualities. I look forward to appreciating people in the present!
I’m very happy with what we did today!”