There is a game that is constantly being played between the spirit and the physical universe, and it is called “withdraw your presence, and see what happens“. What happens is not desirable, and yet, we all seem to be addicted to the game. There are better games to be...
Allow me to help you to systematically, effortlessly, release from your being every self-sabotaging attitude and false self
Allow me to help you to systematically, effortlessly, release from your being every self-sabotaging attitude and false self that have been bringing about your relative dysfunction in the areas of your life that are most important to you. Contact me now to start the...
“There is no more impressive, healthy and sustaining strength than…”
There is no more impressive, healthy and sustaining strength than the strength to be openly vulnerable. Not falsely dramatic to elicit the desired response from people, but to be genuinely openly vulnerable.
Why it is the height of absurdity to judge our fellow beings.
Judgment is a prime example of a human failing, actions can be judged. Statements can be judged. Attitudes can be judged. Results can be judged. But as for judging our fellow beings, it is the height of absurdity to fail to recognize anyone as a being of pure love,...
Rather than being afraid and defensive, and protesting the unknowns and uncertainties that life presents, appreciate the wonder in being in an unfamiliar place!
The effort to refute another’s beliefs or convictions Is borne out of a lack of confidence in one’s own professed position and a misplaced fear of not knowing. When you can be present, unfamiliarity and not knowing brings the excitement of new experiences and the...
AJ: “…very healing, insightful and restorative. I continue to learn and benefit with Dexter from his methods and kind, mindful presence.”
AJ is one of my clients currently engaged in both counseling sessions and mentoring as a practitioner with me. He has this to share: "The sessions that I have experienced with Dexter Gelfand have been very healing, insightful and restorative. I continue to learn and...
Transformative Recovery: Do try this at home.
Transformative Recovery is the name for this technique, and it is what occurs. Simply do as follows, taking as much time as you need: Relax, become effortless, permit every muscle in your body, head and neck to completely unclench. Breathe consciously and naturally....
The dawn of your spiritual liberation occurs when…
The dawn of your self-knowledge and the liberation of your soul occurs when you come to recognize the difference between who you are and who you are being. Love, Dex
A very good question, and my answer: “Grounded in a paradigm”
Another spiritual practitioner introduced herself to me with a good question: "Are you grounded in some kind of system or paradigm that you pass on to others?" My answer follows: "In my perspective, all paradigms have things of value to learn from, but all paradigms...