I absolutely recommend that you make Dexter a part of your life.

Nannette is a massage therapist, who had been complaining of severe pain in her upper back and hands, making it very difficult for her to do her work, and of feeling exhausted and very low on energy. She explained to me that she was diagnosed with having a...

On simplicity (from Geir Isene)

This is a beautiful post and video from Geir Isene which I have reposted below... A talk on simplicity - in coaching, in life, in games, in the search for truth and free will. I pulled up the phone and my mini-mic and did this raw and personal talk in the woods. First...

“The key is Dexter’s simplicity. He strikes right to the core”

I have had two counseling sessions with Dexter.The gains I've had from these two hours actually compare to thegains I got from OT8 - which was also life-changing.The key is Dexter's simplicity. He strikes right to the coreof any issue at hand. No beating around the...

All About the Fascinating World of Your and Others’ Game-Self Identities

We assume the identities of our game selves in interacting with the game selves of others, to play the endless varieties of the games people play- “get the most attention”, “make people fear you”, “be invisible”, “smartest guy in the room”, “shock people”, “get...

“We have met the enemy, and he is us”

I have written about the commonalities between the rigid defensive attitudes (aka stubbornly held protective attitudes) we take on and the personas (aka adopted identities) we take on before. And now, over the past year, in every case, I've noticed perhaps the most...

“I feel so much more prepared to take on life and its challenges”

I am so thankful for the work that I've invested in sessions with Dex Gelfand these last few months. I came to him scared and irresponsible, but after the Therapeutic Spiritual Counseling I've participated in thus far, I feel so much more prepared to take on life and...